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Experimentation in Sex

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In general who do you think are more willing to experiment in Sex, men or women?
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I would have to say that women are more willing to experiment sexually rather than men! I find that especially with the women that contribute to this group it seems like they are more willing to experiment..
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But than again i've seen a lot of men on here that are way more open and willing rather than a woman!
mermaid123
mermaid123
I would say that women are more willing in general as we have that need to please that makes us more willing to try different things. There are definitly some guys out there especially here on HS who are open to it also though.
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The problem is that some women love to talk about this stuff and fantasise about it but are shy when it comes to actually doing it.

Many women are simply prudes but there are alot of men who are prudes as well.
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For me it's been men....all the way.
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Only one of the four men I've been with was willing to experiment. So I'm voting women.
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deleted_user
I find it has always been easy for me to man....ipulate ..lol...men into servicing my quirky needs..!!
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lol, I guess I'm not very good at closing deals. I've never been in sales or anything and even my home business is bombing.

I should take a marketing course or something to learn how to get men to experiment! Lucilu maybe you can write a bestseller on how you do that
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I shall only tell you my secrets of suggestion and my techniques Mdens1971...
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Depends.
In my experience men are great at coming out with fantasies, but maybe not so well grounded in reality about how to make it happen - you know, all that tedious boring stuff about agreeing safewords first, making sure their stinky socks aren't littering up the bedroom ......... just my experience lol!
deleted_user
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It depends all on the person, their age and what theyve been through. Like some people as they get older want to do more and try more, and some just shy away and kinda like a turtle go into themselves and dont want ANY sex which i cannot imagine.
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I would have to say women. Men are babies if you suggest doing anything to them outside of the box. I have let my husband do everything to my body that I can sexually think of. But he won't let me do anything other than sex & sucking him off.
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i think it depends on the personality i would say men and women each have the same percentage of experimenting with sex.
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gotta agree with cass. i think when it all plays out, its probably 50/50
flutterbyfly
flutterbyfly
In my experience, I would have to say men. But thats definitely not the defined correct answer. Just what I have seen.
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