Healthy Sex Support Group

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EVER GET TIRED OF THE SAME OLD SEX PARTNER??

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DOES EVERONE FEEL THAT THEY NEED A CHANGE FROM THE SAME SEX PARNER? OR DOES HE/SHE WANT SOMTHING NEW.WOULD YOU GO OUT AND FIND IT? OR TRY TO IMPROVE THE SEX LIFE YOU HAVE NOW WITH YOUR PRESENT LOVER.BECAUSE I THINK WE ALL THINK ABOUT THAT ONE SOME TIME OR THE ANTHER.
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Not all of us.
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I suppose it all depends on if u have a good sex life with ur partner.
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I wouldn't go out and try to find it as I am married, but if I was the LEAST bit bored, I would definitely spice it up. One thing we did was write a bunch of our fantasies on little pieces of paper and threw them in our "fantasy basket" and then when we want some "added heat" we dip into the basket never knowing what we'll find!
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greeneyed thats a top idea, have 2 try that ;)
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Good idea greeneyed
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It turns me on to think about hubby with other women. He likes to think about me with other men. So when we play we talk about what we would do with third parties.
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Timetotime... MY partner and i do the same thing, you get the exciting meant, without cheating, its great!
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A BORING SEX LIFE IS ONLY THE FAULT OF THE PEOPLE INVOLVED! WHAT ABOUT TOYS, PUBLIC SEX OR ROLE PLAYING. MAYBE PUTTING A MASK ON WILL SHED SOME LIGHT ON THE SITUATION. MY HUSBAND WAS INTO ROLEPLAYING ALOT BUT NOW I HAVE CONVINCED HIM WITH TOYS AND SEX HAS BECOME MORE FREQUENT AND SPONTANEOUS.
CarlaBentley
CarlaBentley
Never change, warguppy!!! I once cheated on my right (dominant) hand, thinking that I might find something better, but my left hand really sucked as a lover and left me feeling frustrated and guilty.
Even the added, illicit thrill of doing it with my right hand nearby didn't really add much to the experience!!!!
I'll never cheat again!!!
Spiky
Spiky
i find that no matter HOW much someone turns me on, no matter HOW great the sex is, i always lose interest eventually. not in sex, just in them. it's not that i stop liking them, i just can't be aroused by the same person indefinitely. it's very painful, because i can love someone dearly but if the sex goes away where does that leave the relationship? i have had some of the most skillful and considerate lovers you could hope for but it doesn't seem to change the pattern. the length of time varies but it always ends the same way. does anyone else have this problem? i feel like i'm doomed to never have a lifelong partner.
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Hay spiky.Yes thats why i wrote the post.
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Are you trying to get conformation to cheat? it seems like this has been on your mind for a minute and you want us to condone it so you feel its cool to do
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its all if your NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP,but once your in a partnership its gonna get crazy that fun only last for a minute but the devils in the corner laughing
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To smilesexy. No, im single at the moment I date a girl,but thats all.Im just curious because i felt that way with past relationships. I guess thats why they dident work,or just not the person for me.I dident cheat on them,never.Just felt like it somtmes.
Spiky
Spiky
i think it's great that you are committed enough to refrain from cheating. i have cheated in the past but ultimately it is not a solution.
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