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I can't seem to find the right balance. If I drink too much I can't climax, if I don't drink anything or enough to get a buzz, I am more inhibited...does anyone else have this problem? Man or woman?
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Things that have wored for me .. in this avenue ..
1) read erotica to each other ..
2) read erotica, and paper clip the parts you like best .. to share with your partner
3) get used to be comfortable in your own skin ..
4) take time to explore each other .. completely and erotically .. so that you both know all the spots that turn each other on ..
5) share fantasies together .. no need to fulfill them .. just talk about them .. and what turns each other on .
6) dress up for the occasion
7) take on the attitude of exploring ..
Just a few thoughts .. I hope they help .. I am no expert .. just a fellow struggler ..
In kind caring
Ray
I don't drink big quantities because it makes me sick though. I am the cheapest drunk ever.
HEE HEE..(meant that in the nicest of ways of course)....
Raynow nailed it on the head...
I think it's probably that drinking dulls your senses...including your sense of touch, which would effect that.
Sort of how you can trip and bust your butt when drunk, but not really feel it till the next day and sober.