I absolutly adore being dominated and i also like to dominated but i do agree it has to be a jont decision

I'm curious regarding the mens responses from the room.

Now don't get me wrong, I am not speaking of black leather total dominatrix (though it's a GREAT look)...

yes partners have said to me you are so much better more confident in bedroom than rest of life change and become more in control in nice way. Would quite like high heeled stocking clad masked mistress but would also like classic Mercedes LOL

Well, the high heeled stocking clad portion I do...

...but I drive a 6 year old pontiac....

Yeah, I have no problem dressing up. I want to have control taken sometimes too though.

I enjoy being dominated in the bedroom at times. I like for her to take control and do anything she wants. It really makes it more interesting.

I always initiated everything, for once I would LOVE to meet a woman who would be dominating in the bedroom. Maybe one day.

I like domination, ie doing it.

it is a good thing...and for those thinking on it...always always always agree on a safeword...a word you wont normally use during sex to indicate full stop and removal for any reason at all. It is a no questions asked stop sign and is important in these types of games, especially if one or both lean towards the darker side..example: mine is grapefruit.

A superb question! An intereting topic and I know u wanna hear from males, but I just couldn't pass this one by.....I would love to be dominated in the bedroom. Rough an wild. I am the dominant one ALL the time in my relationship. While I enjoy this immensely, I believe both parties should give and take if ya know what I mean. Like when I want a man, I TAKE the man......and we wants me he should just TAKE me. I'm not talking rape here, but talking about 2 will partners. But to answer your question briefly, which I neve can do. lol, I do believe that men in general love an agressive woman because there are so few of us out there.......or so they say. I dunno.

Yep...between sedation & agitation, I'll take the latter every time. Pain in the present sucks, but in retrospect, it is always an enjoyable memory. The past lasts longer than the infinitesimal present, so pain is always a bargain.

Well...who prefers to give, and who prefers to receive?

Recieve. Definitely recieve. Do your worst, honey.

Really? Had you pegged as more of a giver....that's a bit...disappointing.

But, I do bite...and have some wicked fingernails...

choose the body part.

Hehehehehh,
Don't get me wrong, I can give, too. But like a good general, I don't believe in sending my troops anywhere I wouldn't lead first. Ever been spanked with a hand soaked in vinegar? It hurts.