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Does Foreplay have a time limit?

fibrosurvivor2
fibrosurvivor2
I am curious if foreplay has a time limit?

I have found that I enjoy foreplay for long periods of time as depending on how I am feeling (how bad my fibro pain is) it can take a little while for me to get going. Sometimes when my pain is bad, I don't get past foreplay.

My ex was very impatient in that department hence he is my ex for a reason hehe.

So is there a time limit on foreplay?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hell no. . .
deleted_user
deleted_user
I don't think there is a time limit but I always seem to get to a point that I can't take it anymore and beg him to do IT.
deleted_user
deleted_user
no time limit if you are both still enjoing it!! Hopfully you are for a long time!!
fibrosurvivor2
fibrosurvivor2
Aaah okay good to know, my ex unfortunately really screwed up my understanding about sex.

It will take a patient, and caring man to be able to help undo all the stuff I learned wrong.
flutterbyfly
flutterbyfly
Absofuckinglutely not! The longer the better!
tossedaside
tossedaside
definately not, the longer the better In fact I kinda feel like it may even be considered foreplay from the time you stop making love til the next time you start
deleted_user
deleted_user
hey I put on two Barry white songs ..after that she better be ready.......................

Seriously ideally foreplay should begin before you get into the bedroom...a few smiles here and provocative look there...squeeze this - slap that..you get the idea...

Once you in the bedroom good foreplay can last 15-20 minutes...I've even done the foreplay up to an hour....
deleted_user
deleted_user
*sigh*

I want some.
deleted_user
deleted_user
No limit for me! I love it. Sometimes I just absolutely need to have it after foreplay, though and can't take it anymore.
deleted_user
deleted_user
No limit for me! I love it. Sometimes I just absolutely need to have it after foreplay, though and can't take it anymore.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Duh, didn't mean to post the same answer twice...thought the "add" button was stuck.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Time limits! No way. I actually dread my last orgasm. For me I want to make the experience last and the women I've been with get impatient and want to move onto doing it. I still wear them out in that department too. :(
deleted_user
deleted_user
nope it shouldnt
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