I've had one or two 'friends' try to stir trouble in a past relationship, not hard to see what their agenda was. All rather pathetic and laughable really.

In both cases I just let the acquaintance die a natural death rather than make a scene, that would have been giving them far too much attention. They weren't a serious threat so there was no point treating them as such. I think I was more upset at the way my partner handled things, but that's another long story.

Now if it had been a closer friendship, yeah that would have hurt badly. I can only hope I've got better judgement/taste in my friends than that.

i had someone who i considered a frien ask my husband to zip her strapless dress of course i wasn't in the room when she did this i'd of killed her

If you can't trust your friends don't keep them.

I do trust my friends around my significant other, just like if I have one (which I don't) I better be able to trust him around my friends.

OK, I THINK HELPING ZIP UP A DRESS IS INNOCENT ENOUGH, UNLESS OF COURSE THAT DRESS WAS ON THE FLOOR FIRST WHILE HIS DICK WAS INSIDE HER...THEN YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO HAVE BEEN PISSED.

it starts inocently supposedly

I don't think asking someone else's husband to zip up your dress is all that innocent, that's the kind of thing you ask your female friends for help with. Might not be infidelity, but it's in bad taste.

apparently my opinion is alot different from everyone elses lol

i dont trust females at all yup...i havent met one (in my real life besides rachelle) that i would even think about trust even if they arent interesting in him women still like to flirt bc they think they're something speacial. it has nothing to do with insecurities or anything like that i just dont trust women and men dont understand how coniving and sloppy SOME women can be

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an before i get attacked im not calling EVER women a whore but i have met ALOT of them

Hate to say it cc, but I've known men be every bit as conniving and backstabbing among themselves as women can be.

And they do know exactly how bitchy some women can get with each other, but why should they worry about it? In a lot of guy's minds, it's all about putting them at the centre of attention, they're not exactly going to discourage that.

Not saying all men are that narcissistic, but any man who tries to plead ignorance about the female politics is almost certainly lying - unless he's only just got out of a monastery or something!

oo i completely agree with u i have met some horrible males as well...

its been my expierence that a lot of men are completely oblivious to how some women can be they think they are just being sweet an not flirting or something

If another woman's just being 'sweet', then she's also going to be pleasant towards you as well. Sometimes you just have to remind your man of that .................
I don't think men are quite so oblivious to it as they pretend - but as long as it flatters their ego, it just makes them slightly less prepared to see it the way they should.

well i trust my husband completely i don't think he would do anything heck he's more scared that i may anyway that woman who asked my hubby to help her i think did nievely but still. i trust him its the female i don't trust
cause a man will only go as far as the woman lets him

My ex whom I was with for 14 years ended up in a relationship about 2 weeks after she left me with a friend of ours who we had been friends with for about 5 years.

I saw the signs about a year prior to our break up. I even voiced them to my ex, I straight up asked her if she had feelings for this friend of ours and I told her I could "see" the way she looked at her, acted around her, etc but she denied it until the bitter end.

This all happened around the beginning of 2007 and they are still together and I have since forgiven them both but we do not keep in any sort of touch with each other. I have my life, they have theirs.

That incident would not have bearing on any relationship I will have in the future. I can't live thinking and worrying it will happen again.

Honestly some women are just really vain and insecure-that is what they are at the core of their being.
They can "project" any image they want
outwardly but inside they are no good.

Life is full of these ppl and there are woman that I wouldn't "trust" around my guy but you know what in the end it would come down to him and if he loved me enough to keep it under wraps and not throw our love away on a moment of pleasure...