
Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
You have to really put forth an effort. If you just feel like you aren't in love anymore, then it is only fair to the other person to tell them how you feel, and see if things can change.
If you believe in your mind and fear already that it is true or will happen, then you are already a statistic for relationships that fail.
Researchers are now calling it the 5-year itch. Cut and Paste and Google:
"Five-year Itch: New Danger Point for Marriages"
So when PEA wares off, you have to really like the person you are with. People can get wrapped up in that brain drug and confuse it with it being something that the partner is responsible for and so when it wares off people still unduly attribute fault the other person. But it's nature.
So you need to treat your partner as your best friend rather than the one responsible for your PEA BRAIN.
Intimacy is a skill. It is learned. It is a behavior. Behavior is a decision. And sometimes you have to decide that you are going to unlearn the ways that don't work and learn the ways that do. Intimacy requires a maturity that some people are too childish to recognize. But behavior is modifiable!
Some days .. one partner works harder than the other .. those things R normal ..
4 us .. we both work .. cuz .. we were both in bad relationships be4 .. but don't wanna go there again .. and yeah .. we're gonna make it ..