Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
My boyfriend asked me this morning how many people I talk to about our personal sex life... he seemed a little worried about it, but I assured him that I don't talk to anyone about it, but that if someone asks if we do, I won't deny it. Now, it was a little bit of a lie because sometimes I'll talk to my best friend about it, but it's more for advice than just bragging or anything.
Is this something he might just be insecure about, or is it just a general rule that you shouldn't talk about things like that with others, even people you trust? Just wondering...
Is this something he might just be insecure about, or is it just a general rule that you shouldn't talk about things like that with others, even people you trust? Just wondering...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Different people can have totally different attitudes about this subject!!
However you and your boyfriend feel about it is what counts in this instance. You should both respect each other's wishes, concerning this.
You seem a bit unsure about his reasons, and maybe even his position on it! Have a talk with him. Ask him if it bothers him if you do and if it does, why?
Please be careful about letting lies creep into your relationship, though!!! Even small ones are damaging to a relationship. If you can stand to tell him the truth now, tell him what you have discussed with your girlfriend and the reasons why.
Personally, I could care less what my SO tells anyone else and he feels the same way; but that's us. Like I say, it's what you two think that matters for you guys!!!!
Take care!!!!
i NEVER spoke about sex to anyone until recentely - and boy oh boy i am so glad i have. i have gotten an earful of positive information. alot of the thoughts i had about sex and guilt about some stuff were cleared up. i have also learned TONS and have experimented with the advice too!! it has all been positive. i think its a good thing to talk about it, if you dont feel comfortable talking, then read!!