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My wife and I were having a discussion last night. She does not care for oral sex, either giving or receiving. She says that I gag her when she is giving it to me. I asked why she doesn't like for me to go down on her. She responded that 75% of women do not like to receive oral sex. I find that number questionable. To be fair, she has had a bladder tuck and experiences some incontinence. The few times that she has let me go down on her has resulted in a golden shower. What percentage of women do not like receiving oral sex?
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This is what I found:
"33 percent say it's your favorite thing to do in bed; 56 percent say you enjoy it but enjoy other things just as much; and only 11 percent say you'd rather skip it."
http://www.redbookmag.com/love/what-you-are-ll4
If I had incontinence I would be uncomfortable recieving oral, I bet there are other ways she likes to be pleased!
Aside from my initial opinion, I have found that most of the women that I have been with love oral sex.
However a woman has to communicate to her lover whats he does and doesnt like. Just like a man has to tell his woman what does and doesnt feel good.
I have been with girls who had a hangup about it too. They thought they "smelled or tasted funny". When in reality they didnt. Once they trusted me enough not to judge and let me try, their minds' were changed. 75% may also be the number she is telling herself so she won't feel like she is being abnormal. She has a legitimate physiological reason to want to avoid it, makes perfect sense...but factually, 75%? No way.
Every girl I have come across that did not like it initially had a mental hang up about it.
So enjoy pleasing my lover ..
Tell her that 84% of men that do not recieve oral sex end up exploding.
It's a fact. You read it on the internet y'no.
OMG help i am about to explode LMAO
I still prefer to give than receive though unless there is a real connection though because, to me it is just too personal for just anyone.