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clitoris amnesia

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Is it just me or does anyone else have a problem with getting thier guy to remember where the detonater is for us girls? Yea, they know where it is, but why do they sometimes go everywhere else but there? Everywhere else is great but hey, it doesn't get the job done. There should be a clitoris awareness class for men in high school so when they come out they know what the score is. And I don't want to hear from anyone telling me that I just haven't met the right guy. I've been married for 9yrs, but before that I met plenty of guys so there's no way it's an odds thing. And I have a lot of girlfriends who feel the same way.
deleted_user
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May I suggest ... an anatomy class of two .. just you and your hubby ..

If you feel brave enough .. actually show him .. tell him .. I've got something to show you .. and then .. proceed to have him watch you .. as you bring yourself to climax ..

Sometimes us guys have need to be hit over the head with a brick .. to get us to hear you ..

A brick can really hurt .. but .. taking him gently by the hand may just work ..

I truly hope this helps ..
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sometimes we just have to tell them what we want & how we want it. I expect my man to tell me (or show me) what he wants too since none of us are mind readers! :)
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Men need a reminder on occasion...take his hand...head...whatever and just PUT IT THERE.

Touch me HERE...

If your partner watches you go through the freaking roof, they're usually quite amicable to return to the scene...it's a whole "Look what I can make you do" thing....
Wilson
Wilson
I agree with Raynow. We are not all that smart when it comes to women and we need to be taught. Most of the time one class is not enough, we need to be taught over and over because we are slow learners. Sow him, teach him, and if he don't get it the first time show him again until he does get it.
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deleted_user
Thank you all so much. This is all very helpful advice. I'll give it a shot.
koolman
koolman
Perhaps it's because a clitorus is basically a miniature penis (laughs), and we want to explore the more "feminine" area (labia). But, if that's what gets you off, hey, I'll suck on that thing all day. Gettin' horny--I'm gonna have to do this to some girl now...
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deleted_user
Speaking from a guys point of view: I know exactly where the clitoris is, I know exactly where my partner's G-spot is, what works for her changes from day-to-day and that is one of the things I enjoy. It is like a little puzzle / challenge. She enjoys it too, and we don't get wound up if it doesn't go there. Sometimes life just gets in the way. I will say that sometimes what starts the ball rolling is surprising and I am always ready to stop what I am doing and try something else if things are not working, or, work a little harder at what is working. It is all fun, mysterious, and wonderful.
cowboy357
cowboy357
was your man a virgin when you got to him tammy? geeze I knew how to turn a woman on at 15 years old , maybe I learned early but , if a man makes a woman happy she'll want to do it more often
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sometimes I wish my husband would forget! *L* I have to be better at showing him how much pressure I like and stuff, cuz a lot of times he'll go mad at it and it just hurts!
deleted_user
deleted_user
CAREFUL L,ADY'S I KNWO SOME GIRLS WHO HAVE A CLITORIS THAT IS OVER EXCITED JUST FROM A SINGLE TOUCH..... MY WIFE NOW HAS AN ISSUE WITH IT BEING LICKED EVER SO GENTLY , IN HIGH SCHOOL I WAS KNOWN AS '' TOUNGZILLA '' SO LADYS BECAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR SOME GUYS MAY JUST WANT TO JUMP ON THAT LITTLE BALL OF LOVE AND NOT GET YOU WWHAT YOU REAALY WANT....
deleted_user
deleted_user
i tell my son and his friends
"It's all about the clitoris!!"

have you ever seen a group of 17 year old boys blush and stammer "yes mom we know" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! I love being an evil mom...
cowboy357
cowboy357
THE CLIT IS THE ON BUTTON .LOL
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