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deleted_user
deleted_user
I have decided to give my boyfriend a blow job for his birthday. I don't want it to be the usual blow job. Any tips or tricks to make this special? I'm open to suggestions.
deleted_user
deleted_user
There are some great books .. for both men and women ..

Try Amazon dot com ..

I won't get into specifics .. but .. I'm sure he is gonna love his b/day present .. it's always one of my favs too ..
deleted_user
deleted_user
That's a good idea. A book can help in more ways than one.
Tray34
Tray34
Is this a surprise for him?That will make him happy for sure...
deleted_user
deleted_user
It is a surprise. Well, sort of. I asked him if he'd rather have a bj for his birthday than gifts and he laughed but he smiled so I know that the answer is yes. Maybe he thought I was joking.
deleted_user
deleted_user
guys love that...as do women love having it done to them.
have you tried watching a porno?, that's how i learned, lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have watched some porn and got some good tips. I've used those tips with him already. I'm looking for something new. Maybe it's back to watching porn lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
Invite one of your attractive friends over and give him a BJ together.
koolman
koolman
In order to offer tips, one would need to know how you USUALLY do it!
deleted_user
deleted_user
DayKart: I have no friends.
Tray34
Tray34
Do you normally give him bj's and you want this one to be different?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I normally give him bj's. I don't do it very often. I just wanted to do something different. Just to spice it up.
Tray34
Tray34
Have you tried flavored oils?Ice?Peppermint in your mouth?Tease him and drive him crazy girl.
deleted_user
deleted_user
OHHHH.... drink some ice water and then suck his dick HARD, the mixing sensations of hot and cold will drive him wild!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh, I like that. Ice, peppermints. That's what I'm talking about.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I had an ex that LOVED to put on a cockring while I sucked him, you could try that, too! I'm beginning to like this thread, lol!
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