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blow his mind

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My husband and I are getting back together after a month long seperation and I need some help. We've been married for 9yrs and things have gotten a little stale in the bedroom. I want to shake him up and make him remember how hot I can be. Not much is out of the question except for bringing someone else in-won't go there.
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You shouldn't be getting back together to begin with, in my opinion, but since you wanna give it a try, two words:
"RUSTY TROMBONE"
Google it.
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WELL IF THERE IS A LOCAL ADULT STORE GET SOME FLAVORED CONDOMS AND LUBES AS WELL AS EDIBLE UNDIES (ALWAYS A TREAT) I ALSO HAVE A VIBRATOR THAT CAN BE WORN DURING SEX AND CAN BE BENEFIT BOTH PARTNERS. THERE ARE ALSO COUPONS YOU CAN GIVE YOUR SPOUSE THAT HAVE DIFFERENT ACTIVITIES ON THEM THAT CAN BE REDEEMED AT ANY TIME. AND A PERSONAL FAV IS GLOW N THE DARK DICE WILL ALWAYS ADD A LIL EXCITEMENT TO THE NIGHT.
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VoltAir, thanks for assuming that I should end my 9yr marraige. That's very supportive of you-why are you here?
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I'm sorry tammygirl. You provided the information regarding your marital history. From my own experience of being married for seven years, I can say from my own experience that the divorce was the best thing that ever happened to MY sex life. If you want marital advice, you might like to try the "Breakups & Divorce" page. I apologize if my advice overstepped any boundaries.

My advice regarding the Rusty Trombone still stands, however...
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Coming from my perspective .. it's not the act or acts that will thrill and excite him .. it's turning on his mind ..

May I suggest a build up .. fan the fire .. with notes, text messages, emails .. and .. then .. the passion and excitement ..

It's the attitude you show him .. that will really shake up his world ..

If you want any more clarity .. please email me personally .. I'd be more than happy to share ..

I truly hope this helps .. is done with a kind and caring heart ..
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