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Being alone and horny

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Well....I am a single girl. I have grown to except the fact that I am single, BUT being single and horny.........that is different. I could go out, and find me a girl...but, I want more than a one night stand. Anyway, just wanted to vent a bit. Need satisfaction...
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wow you just described real life. five years how many for you?
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2 years. Some action here and there, but nothing of what I need. There is this built desire that I need to find the right person to take care of it.
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hmmm i think i understand you need the right scratcher for the itch..

my problem is every man i have seen in the last 5 years wanted more kids. thank gods they hinted before the sex eeeeewwww more kids pft pft bleck. i just chase them away out of habbit now.
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Yeah, I've been dating this guy. He is so old fashioned. There is all this sexual tension, but nothing happens. It drives me crazy. He is a guy. You'd think he would be game. Then I am torn...I find women so sexy. I desire them more than men. For what I need...I think a woman could handle the job better.
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i look at it as sex is sex as long as it's fun and consentual who cares if it's not what everyone else does.

having the same prob with a guy i was seeing just recently. too old fashioned no sex.
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I don't know if I am too strong and intimidating. I told this guy that I wanted him to fuck me. But, I think there are plenty who would just listen. I don't know. Women more aware of what you need. I'm just rambling now.
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rambling helps me order my thoughts
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well i must agree with alot of it.do hate the alone thing alot.but would prefer to have that emotional connection.but at this point enough is enough.aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahha ok better now:not
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I know what Ya mean Mom, no more kids for me either, and I had sex a month or so ago but it wasnt satisfying because I want and need a deeper connection. For too long I confused sex for love and now that I know better, I want the full package with someone....
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ah yes, i need some sex too. but alas, i am sure if i just had sex that it wouldnt be fulfilling. need that intimacy. but sometimes i think, what the hell... but i dont. :(
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I'll second that kittie. I need some good lovin.
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after a few years your hands get boring
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