Hi, spiky!!!!
I have some sexual fantasies that really, really turn me on -- until I think about actually living them out!!! Then, some of them quite disgust me and do not seem the least bit sexually exciting!!! LOLOL!!!
Once I realized that, I stopped being ashamed of them!!!
I'm pretty sure that it's a very common experience!!

thanks for your reply. i'm glad other people are willing to admit to these things. (thank goodness for the internet, i could never talk to anyone i know about stuff like this!)

I don't think you should feel ashamed for having these thoughts as long as you don't act on them.

Sometimes I get turned on by these thoughts too. I don't feel guilty about them because I'm turned on by the IDEA, not by thinking about specific people. I do think about people who have been abused in this way and can feel their horror too. Because I know that its harmful and would be appalled if it ever happened, I don't feel bad about them. Its a good thing to know what is a fantasy that needs to stay in fantasyland and what could be made into reality.

Im glad you brought it up.I think its healthy and normal to feel that way.We can stimulate our brain like a cartoon sexual playground nothing wrong with using the old emagination.Works wonders for me lol Think sexy thoughts and feel good about it thats my feelings.

I agree with the others before as long as its all just fantasy then it should mean no harm.
When I 1st started dating my hubby..a friend of mine from work told me that its a big turn on to her bf to call him "daddy" sometimes when they are having sex!...she said I should try it because it really makes things hot..i thought it was a lil strange but then I started thinking about it and thought "Hey what'tha hell" it sounds kinda fun!! So i went home and seduced hubby and right when were about to the nasty I said "Stick it in me DADDY!!" He stopped for a sec and a total look of shock went over his face...and it was just an awkward silent moment..we went on to do the deed but nothing else was said after that...
So your not alone it can make for good roleplay..just not in my case.

Ummm, no, I can't say I do.

Im like that i have the craziest fantasies of RAPE this is crazy but i might try it out with a lover

I have this uncle that have a good body and I have always based all my bf's bodys on that and every now and then I have dreams about having sex with and and I wake up feeling very uncomfortable I was not molested but my sister and I wear very close to this uncle he was our roll modle I suppose that could have been the reason for the dreams and although I would never ever what to do that I still to this day have those dreams maybe you have these thoughts because you feel like it was your falt that you where abused.

this isn't a fantasy. this really happened. I have a first cousin who is bipolar and I am also. we are around the same age and did not grow up around each othe or even in the same state. bipolar impairs your judgement and we met up once years ago and got to drinking and got a little frisky and the strange thing is, I don't feel guilty about it or gross or anything. Now with the cousins I grew up with, I wouldn't have even considered this back then, so I wondered if this had anything to do with it. what are ya'll's thoughts? i mean if our parents knew they would freak ya know. but we don't. anyways.....any thoughts?

smilesexy I have that fantasy too.

there are many things that we live in our head, but if we ever act on them... we would be monsters... and that is why they stay in the head.
There, they have harmed none and not done anything.

I use to have dreams about my cousin when i was younger, but i will never act on them or tell anyone either..

If I ever have morbid thoughts, I immediatly pray to god to remove those thoughts from my head..

well 2 smilesexy as that has happend to me an lots of others out there i wonder if you would still have these sick thoughts if it was 2 come true