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guys...do you like doing this ?

Anal's great, Goof. Sound's like your fella's gotta use more lube though, and go slower. I just slide the head in, and let the girl back into it at her own comfortable pace. Of course, a little tongue/finger action beforehand usually helps to loosen things up...

hey...I didnt know that he was going to do this...I wasn't prepared for it...

not sure if I want to try again...

You didn't KNOW he was gonna do it??? OK, I can see why you didn't like it, then. Total prison-style, huh? That's rough.

COMMUNICATION: the most important component of any healthy intimate relationship.

absolutley without question something that needs to be confirmed in advance....

Jumping into this...poor idea.

I am not doing it any more, it doesn't matter how much lube I use, it just doesn't feel good

you really have to be into it for it to feel good. i've had good experiences and bad ones..wouldn't rule it out for the future though

If it works for you, have a drink or two first to keep you from tensing up when the time comes. Then tell your man YOU are in charge, tie him up if necessary (he won't mind). Give him a little bit of a blow job, but don't use saliva as lube, get a good quality lube and then coat him liberally. Then hop on up and take it slowly. One great way to do this is your back to his front, so his balls hit your clit. You can even use a cock ring with a vibrator on it (makes it very nice!). Any YOU take charge! If he gives you any flak about it, hand him your dildo and tell him to put it up HIS ass and he will shut up! Do, however, ask him to tell you how much pressure to use, the sphincter is a tighter muscle than the vaginal muscles are, so you give him greater pressure if you (and he) likes.

My favorite is going doggie with him wearing a cock ring vibrator and letting his balls bounce on my clit...oh yeah! Just take it easy and go with it and tell him if he takes over and hurts you it will never happen again! Once again, remind him YOU are in charge and do the things that will make you feel comfortable...it is a learned experience.

My first time, he just jammed it in with no lube or anything and the excuse that he thought all women liked it like that...duh. Sometimes they just don't know better. WE have to train them to what WE like. Good luck and give it a try again and see what happens.

OH Goof you have to be ready and not have it shoved in, no wonder you didnt like it.

Next time take it slow and WOW it is so GOOD

I like doing it and have down it several times, but there is nothing as good as the front door. Yes this is something that needs to be planned. I can see why you didn't like it when it was a surprise. It needs to be down with a lot of foreplay and lube to.

Wilson, I will agree that there is nothing finer than the front door.....

But ya gotta mix it up to keep things interesting!

hey i like the front and back door visited sometimes xx xx

And lets not forget the upstairs!

oh honey your read my mind

Had two woman friends both asked me to do it. And they used vibros on front while I did. It depends on fore play use of gel etc, care and letting the woman dictate the entrance and the amount you go in when you come and coming out. Its ok one lady wanted to be spanked hard at same time as said it made her grip harder. Hey if everyone happy wots the prob dont force it in every way