
Healthy Sex Support Group
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Hello. First time posting here. I just would like to ask advice/insights on thoughts I have been having. Due to severe depression, shyness, and loneliness issue, I have never had a g/f in my life let alone dating any. And I am a 25 yr old virgin as pathetic as it may seem.
I wish I had at least a g/f to spend time with but I seem to have too many flaws to deserve a woman at this moment. Severe depression never gave me a confidence to ask out any woman.
I don't want to die a virgin and I strongly believe getting married to a woman I love and raising kids is the essence of life. Not being able to do that causes great agony upon myself.
Am I missing out on life by being virgin and not dating anyone? Will my sexual desire/performance decrease substantially if I get married after 30?
Thanks in advance for any insights.
I wish I had at least a g/f to spend time with but I seem to have too many flaws to deserve a woman at this moment. Severe depression never gave me a confidence to ask out any woman.
I don't want to die a virgin and I strongly believe getting married to a woman I love and raising kids is the essence of life. Not being able to do that causes great agony upon myself.
Am I missing out on life by being virgin and not dating anyone? Will my sexual desire/performance decrease substantially if I get married after 30?
Thanks in advance for any insights.
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I can tell you firsthand that your sexual performance won't decrease after 30. However, if you want kids, you'll want to marry a woman who is still relatively young. I have friends who are trying to have kids, but can't due to age-related fertility issues.
You're still in your 20s; you're still young. Like another poster said, don't just take the first woman who comes along. Make sure your first time is something special, whether or not it's when you get married. As far as sexual desire decreasing after 30, I'm probably not the best one to answer that since I've never had a super-huge libido. However, I've probably been "hornier" this year than any other because I've finally decided that I want to start down the path of actually trying to make a relationship a reality. In years prior I had just ignored it as something I would never experience but for various reasons I have renewed interest in it.
I think some of this pertains to your experience. I've met a lot of people online who are in the same position as we are. Good luck to you.