i am 9 years younger than my mate, who is significantly more experienced in the sexual art. i feel inadequate alot of the time, especially when he wants to have a conversation that its my fault because of my age and inexperience that sex isn't as good as it has been with other of his partners. He doesn't ask what i like, just assumes that what has worked with others, is supposed to work with me. I try to explain things that i like and that feel good but it is hard because of my extreme modesty. What is the best way to talk this out? any ideas on ways to make sex enjoyable for both of us?
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