I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now... Ever since the beginning of the relationship and even when we fooled around before that, he's ALWAYS been the one to "initiate" sex or anything sex-related. I've never had to, so I've never tried because I know that whenever he wants it, he'll come to me. This has created a problem because now, when I want it, I'm too shy to start things off. He's said to me before that he would be really turned on if I started the ball rolling, so to speak... but I just can't bring myself to do it. I mean, I'm confident with my body and I'm not inhibited by being naked around him or anything like that, it's just when it comes to me touching him first or dirty talk or anything, I can't be the first one to do anything. Any suggestions?
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