
Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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I am usually a member of the OCD community however I thought that I would pose a question here in regards to my relationship with my husband. We have been married for four years (been together for ten) and we had grown apart over the last five years. I recently have discovered he has been having "cybersex" for about 5 years now. (His credit cards bills are so high!) We have grown apart and he stays up late at night online and does not want to have sex with me. I know sex is not the only thing in a relationship but I feel very lonely. When we do have sex I keep thinking that he is thinking about the people online. I think about having an affair myself and find myself very attracted to other men. Please help! I believe that if I was in a happy relationship I would be only attracted to my husband.
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Without honest (and occasionally tactful) communication how can you have a relationship?
You need to determine where you are in the marriage, and what YOU want out of it.
Communicate and counselling.
As someone who has to go through the whole divorce thing, I would say, if you still love him, do counseling. If it doesn't work, you can look into other options later.