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deleted_user
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theres this guy ive been hanging out with i really like to be with him he is so good to me and the sex is great the best but i could never be serious with him cause he drinks everyday alot so should i just stop evrything or just tell him lets be friends with french bennifits
deleted_user
deleted_user
i think you should talk to him about his drinking and find out if he's willing to slow down cause of how much it bother's you! If he's not willing to stop and if he feels like he needs alcohol to live day to day, than obviously it's not a stable enough relationship and i would suggest to be just friends!
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deleted_user
I'd say friends with benefits. You get into a relationship and his drinking problem becomes your problem. You leave and you will miss all that great sex.
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deleted_user
I'd say friends with benefits too ..

I have a very dear friend who is an alcoholic .. they don't change .. unless they really want to .. and .. only after a whole ton of work ..

Just my opinion .. hope it helps u ..
jimmysquirrel
jimmysquirrel
take this from an alcoholic... RUN! he will drag you threw hell if you stick with him. If he ever gets sober is a different matter, but as he is... the only hting that will happen is you will lose your sanity.
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