I have a couple of friends I hang out with occasionally, a girl and a guy. We've started bowling here recently. Wednesdays are free ladies night.:) What concerns me is I'm feeling a little protective of my female friend. I'm not sure if I need to be. Let me know if I'm being oversensitive. Firstly, the two are close. The guy looks after and protects her, which is endearing. I had a friend like that too, so I don't want to be a hypocrite. But he told us at the last bowling that he thought his wife was going to leave him, that she refused counseling, etc. Another time on instant messaging, he admitted to me that he didn't spend too much time with my friend because she's so good looking. The guy does ministering on the side and is definitely a spiritual guy. But I can't help but worry about my friend. Also, I think we'll be meeting for bowling regularly, & I'm not always so sure how I feel about it. Sometimes, it's nice just us girls. I guess we'll see how it goes. I've kind of been withdrawing from the guy friend lately, and it's probably unjust. Just keeping my reserved distance.