Could it be that you like passive, submissive, feminine women, because you are scared deep down of being hurt? Have you been hurt before, and it is a defense mechanism? Maybe you manipulate to feel in control. I don't mean to offend, and please don't take this as an attack. The reason I say this, is because your comments remind me of my brother-in-law. He only dated women he felt he could emotionally dominate. He had lots and lots of girlfriends who were of "type." He eventually married and he was unhappy. He and his wife went to counseling, and he was told that his "way", was a front for being insecure in himself. He was anxious and fearful whenever anyone, especially a mate, had the ability to make his heart hurt, or made him feel vulnerable. It was a I'll hurt you first, before you hurt me, kind of thing. This may apply to you, it may not. I don't know. What I do know, is you have to be vulnerable at some point. You can't protect yourself all the time. You have to be able to risk.. to find the " one." Do you have a passive mom? Sometimes we are attracted to what we know. Just my thoughts. Good luck, be open to all women, and be honest them and with yourself. There is a great woman out there for you! She's out there..don't give up!