I've been dating my boyfriend for almost two years. We've been living together for about 6 months. Now here's the problem. When I met him he was married. The marriage was over but they both lived together still. She also had a boyfriend.She finally moved out and got a place of her own. Well one day he slept with her. They both agreed it was a mistake. Then along with him sleeping with her came a surprise with that...A Baby... I couldn't believe it. We knew it was his and not the boyfriend because he was in jail. After 15 years of them trying she never got pregnant until now. When he found out I thought our relationship was over. He never left me. We stayed together and it actually brought us closer. He still helped her and supported her during the pregnancy.Or atleast what she allowed. She hated him because he didn't get back with her. I thought that maybe she planned this. So the baby has arrived. Now I'm dealing with the issue of him going to her house to see the baby. I know he has to go. I'm not taking that from him. But I feel alittle scared about the time he is spending over there. He says he loves me and nothing has changed in our relationship.
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