We have been together 3 years. Im 21 hes 23. earlier in our relationship we never called each other names when we'd fight. But after the first year, our mouths got dirtier and dirtier. I do blame myself for starting the name calling, but as soon as i realized it was making us enemies, I stopped name calling. Now, to this day, when we argue, he doesnt call me names, but he says the most hurtful things he can think of which makes me get a lump in my throat and want to cry, but I dont, I just stay quiet and dont argue back. When I dont say anything back he sees me as being weak, and hits even harder with more and more and wont stop. I want to break into tears and say "how can you say things like Im your enemy?" He says "you should go kill yourself" and repeat it over and over. How can I make him stop? He would never go into therapy. Not only is he verbally abusive but he man handles me all the time. He says hes playing but he hurts me and often leaves bruises on me. He has an anger and jealousy problem I cant handle.
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