For those of your that have been keeping up with my recent posts about this guy i've been seeing. I have an update. I finally confronted him tonight and asked him why he's taking things so slow with me. I can't say that I like the conversation we had, but I'm glad I got it out there. He says that he's been hurt a lot and he's scared to rush. But I thought that was bs so I kept pressing and he finally says "I really like you but I'm not sexually attracted to you". That cut deep. I didn't really know how to take it. He said he thinks I'm beautiful and attractive but he just doesn't have the urge to have sex with me. Well, that's pretty promlematic don't you think? He said that he loves being with me and doesn't want to loose me or what we have. He says that he wants to give it a week and that during that week he is going to make attempts to get closer to me physically and if it doesn't work than we'd have to accept the outcome. I don't like having this deadline. I feel like the pressure just got even worse than it was before. I told him that and he agreed that instead of a week we would just try it in general with no deadline. I am so torn right now. I don't even know how to feel. I'm extremely attracted to him sexually and I know that I'll have no problem at all getting closer to him. But I am so affraid and nervous about this trial thing. I hope agains hope that this works out for me. I can't even begin to tell you how amazing this guy is. He was really understanding through the whole conversation. I made him cry because he felt so bad that I was in so much pain. I know that he cares about me and I know that he doesn't want this to end badly. So, does anyone have any advice for me to help me get through this "trial" relationship? This is new to me and I don't know how to take it. I'm still unsure on how to act. Should I let him make the moves since it was his idea? I know he'll make moves now because that's the point of this. He said he had to lower his guard and try things out. Please, any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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