Healthy Relationships Support Group
No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.
Okay over the summer, I was sexually harassed by an guy friend. Today, I saw him hit a girl in the butt and she told him not to. When she said that he said he didn't. Then I saw him corner a friend into a corner and told her to take something back that she said. Then at the bus stop, he came up to me asking what's wrong? I told him nothing. He wouldn't let it go and he kept going and I told him that somethings you say and do gets us(at school) worried.
And that he always seems mad. He asked me did he did something to me that upset me and I told him yeah. I told him I would rather talk about this with my teacher. I think he doesn't know fully that he harassed me during the summer because I laugh and shut down when I become upset and uncomfortable.
My teacher knows about him sexually harassing me. What should I do?
And that he always seems mad. He asked me did he did something to me that upset me and I told him yeah. I told him I would rather talk about this with my teacher. I think he doesn't know fully that he harassed me during the summer because I laugh and shut down when I become upset and uncomfortable.
My teacher knows about him sexually harassing me. What should I do?
deleted_user
tlak to your teacher about how uncomfortable he makes you feel.you should feel safe at scholl and home and no one has a right to harass you..
deleted_user
Sounds to me that this guy friend is first off no friend I would want,, second he may have masculinity problems if he is picking on girls... If I were 17 again,, I would probably tell another of my guy friends and let them handle it! lol... however, alas,, I am not and the mother in me says talk to an adult,, your teacher is a good bet or your mother! I was lucky,, I had two big brothers and would dare any guys to pick on me! LOL
deleted_user
Definitely talk to your teacher. If this person is doing this to others, it needs to be addressed. Also do talk to your parents and let them know whats going on too. And stay from him the best you can.
electric2
tell the school councelor they well know how to deal with a bully.
deleted_user
Thanks everyone! Well Electric2, sadly we don't have a school counselor. My parents don't know about me being harassed. When that happened over the summer it caused a relapse with my cutting, so it hasn't been very good.
deleted_user
If your teacher doesn't do anything go up the chain of command... Talk to the principal.
deleted_user
I'm scared to talk to my teacher because the guy will say he didn't when he has.
deleted_user
Perhaps it's time to consider putting down the razor and picking up your self worth darlin. It doesn't matter what this guy says he did or didn't do. You have an obligation to protect not only yourself but any other girl who is being harrassed by this jerk. If not you, then who? You can't let him intimidate you into silence or before you know it, you'll begin to think that's a normal response. You don't want that, and neither does anyone else. Chin up, shoulders straight, resolve forward! You can do this and should. Report him to the school and if that doesn't do it, there's a sherrif somewhere that will be more than happy to put him in check. Don't take much time thinking about this either. He's made it clear where he stands, so make it clear where you stand. You won't put up with it, and you're NOT going to be forced to endure it either. Were you my daughter, that's what I'd tell you after I whipped this kids butt, but since I'm just a collection of text on the screen for now, you'll have to do the fighting for yourself. Just remember, there are other girls out there that are depending on you to take up the charge. So do it!!!
Join the Conversation
-
I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
-
theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
