Hello all! I am asking anyone or everyone for a little advice on my relationship. We have been togetther for almost 2yrs.(july 08) Seems as though we're in love, but lately things just don't seem right, I have this rechid gut feeling like things aren't just right. Anyways, about us..... We both come from previous relationships that were either emotionally abusive or mentally abusive. I was married she was not, however her past relationship lasted about 8 yrs. I have 2 children, she has none. She is 9 yrs younger than I and we want to have a child. In the past yr we have been through alot. Besides dealing with my divorce( which she did not cause), my father passed and my dog of 14 yrs. Also I was arrested and forced to plea to a "B" misdemeanor caused by my ex. Last, but not least, we moved and I lost my job. ( still looking). Ok, I know that sounds like alot, and it is, but heres the other side of things. She landed a great new job with the government and really likes it! I am going back to school to finish something I started a few yrs ago, plus I am looking for work. About 2 weeks ago we found out she has genital herpes. It floored me. I have never had any STD whatsoever. Up to and shortly prior to that she had been cold and distant, or at least my perception of that. When approached she gets angry and shuts off, so now we are in couples therapy. Additionally, She works with a bunch of men, and being an insecure individual I ponder the thought of her cheating. Her close friends has insisted that she would never ddo that, and truthfully, other than being alittle cold she has never given any proof or therwise to me that it could be happening. Also, we are toghether too much for it to happen, except of course while she is at work. Anyway..... Anyone with alittle advice or insight or even a little sympathy would be appreciated. Thank you everyone and god bless.
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