I met this guy just before Christmas and it was more like a sex only thing, then he starts saying things that imply us being more than that. He talks about paying for a sitter for my kids and taking me out to dinner. Then I don't hear from him for a week or maybe two. He calls me late at night and yes I am stupid enough to go over (he's my neighbor) he keeps saying things that we will do, but they never happen. I haven't said that I want more from him that he is ready to give. He said the other night that he just doesn't know what he wants, he thinks he wants to buy a house, I am pretty sure that does not include me though. He says he is comfortable with me and he likes me. I like him but think I am just going to end up with a broken heart again. Last night we were supposed to get together but he never called me until 10 this morning. I am upset but so tired of relationships with fighting I don't bother to say anything. I was totally stood up and today I am crying about it. Yesterday afternoon he asked if I wanted to buy his sofa and love seat because he wants a new one and I need newer than I have. I can not afford it for sure, and I don't have room for both. I don't like my place crowded, I have kids and I babysit so we need space. Now I feel like I am stuck, if I don't buy his, he will think it's because of last night. The whole couch thing aside, I don't know what to do. I have been so lonely lately and I do like him, but I think I am just being used and going to be hating myself for all of this. Should I just end it now? or stick around and see what happens?
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