I don't know that this is taboo, I see that some peeps would view it that way but really it is about personal choice. If you come across an interesting genltleman whom doesn't 'care' (I use that loosely, of course they care) your are preggers, and you are interested, why not get to know him. Will it be traditional, no, but so. If you are not comfortable with it there certainly isn't anything wrong with waiting until after the lil' one is born either...
Personal choice.

hun instead of a date why not just go out as friends i mean you are only pregnant its not like you have leprosey!!!
He might see you as a strong woman who is willing to do what is best for her and her unborn child and he might like that strength in you....so take it slowly and remeber that child is half you too so let yourself be happy. good luck!

definately not taboo I'd take mumof's advice and go out as freinds ya never know he might be the one

Go with your gut reaction. You turned him down but it didn't feel right.. so ask him out. He must know you are pregnant unless you are one of those amazing women who don't show until they are 8 1/2 months along!

yes, he certainly knows that I'm pregnant and I AM showing. It just feels very wrong (grew up in catholic family). :|

mumofthree, I know I don't have leprosey but I feel like it (with all I've been through). Still trying to cope and work things out for myself..

Catholic or not go with the gut! I am not suggesting hopping into bed but a nice dinner will not hurt!
Getting out and about with a date or with friends will probably help you feel less like a leper anyway.

hugs hun!

So, all of you see no problem with this. I chatted with a friend and she told me an inspirational story about the man on the roof.. moral of the story is God is helping me by sending someone to help but the person does not see it (me). I spoke to this person to get more of a feeling, he does seem sincere and all. But I have to get rid of this mountain I've built up in my head first. Thanks everyone!