My boyfriend is very flirtatious, but in a very weird way. Well maybe its not so weird... We've been together for about a year and a half and he still talks to several ex-girlfriends, and a crazy amount of girls. Im all for staying friends with exes, to an extent. He seems to think that i dont know he does this. And, really, the only reason I do is because of things that have happened in the past. In going through is phone im finding out that he lies to me about what he's doing. He uses his job as an excuse to go hang out with his ex girlfriend. He's told me in the past that he has to go to these "work" dinners, and not once did I ever question it..until now. Now I wonder how many of those "work dinners" were "ex girlfriend dinners". And even though I know all this and I have seen with my own eyes that he is lying to me and not doing what he tells me hes going, I sometime still think he is telling me the truth, WHICH IS INSANE! So basically I really want to tell him all the things I know and let him know that he doesnt have to lie to me. If he wants to be friends with girls thats fine, but include me, too. How can I do this???
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