no relationship. That's where I am in my life right now ... trying to stay focused on how I can be healthy for myself. I suppose I could retitle that to say "Sometimes the healthiest relationship is the one with yourself." Lol. I read a lot of posts about trying to help a partner with low self-esteem or depression. Why are we drawn to partners like that? Savior mode? IDK ... I'm throwing ideas out there because I've been there, and don't wish to be there again. I've been the bottomless pit and I've been the "fixer" and either way, the only way any relationship is healthy is by making sure things are taken care of on your own home front. Being single is a perfectly valid choice; we don't have to be in unhealthy relationships just to not feel alone.
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