My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. It hasn't been an easy realtionship on anyone and a lot of mistakes have been made. But everything has been perfect the past few months...or so I thought. To make a long story short He tells me that he loves me, wants to start a life with me and doesn't ever want to be with anyone else. But, he aslo says he's not happy. He doesn't know why he's not happy, but he's not. I don't understand. For me, just having someone and being able to have a future together is enough to make me happy. I have been through hell medically the last 2 years and I was never "unhappy". He is even more frustrated bc he doesn't know how to make himself happy. The only thing he knows is that he doesn't want me to leave. I know this isn't about me, but It makes me feel horrible all the time. I feel like nothing I do is good enough. Like nothing I say ro do even matters. Idk what to do or what to say to him anymore. I'm so hurt that I don't know how to respond in a way that isn't mean. i feel invisible. Can someone just help me understand?
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