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My relationship has no trust what so ever. I know my boyfriend, I see him lie and I know how good he is at it. What makes me any different from the other people he lies to? He's really OBSESSED with hockey and he's on the computer 24/7! Im starting to think he cant possibly looking at hockey the ENTIRE time. To me, I wonder if there's another reason he's obsessed with this computer. Ive found plenty of naughty things I didnt wanna find and I just wont stand for that. He definitely lies about that and it drives me crazy. I mean, Im not stupid. The things he lies about, theres never be any other explanation other than he did it. He just says "I dont know". Im sick of it. Am I crazy or am I right?
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Because it won't matter one iota what others tell you they think, it won't change what your gut tells you will it?
If you are not crazy - what would you like to change?
How would you go about instigating that change?
If it didn't change what decisions are you then going to make?
I think these should be your real questions, because weather you are crazy or not - you are unhappy with how things are, you don't trust him obviously, and you feel neglected due to the computer.
Feelings don't lie - crazy or no - you clearly don't like your situation.
PS - My ex used to say "I dont know" to everything too.
He's a liar. If you don't want to be with a liar, leave.
If you are crazy, it's because you are right, and yet are doing nothing about it. He's lying and you're doing nothing except feeling hurt and waiting for him to see the light and stop doing it.
Do you think if he loved you he wouldn't lie to you? Would you lie to someone you loved?
Well, he's lying to you. What does that say about the quality of love he feels for you?
Don't live in a world that is how you wish it would be, yet is not; live in the world that is, and act accordingly.
You sound pissed off, and no wonder !
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