today is me and my boyfriends two year anniversary. we took our son to the doctor today and by noon he still didn't acknowlege it, so on the way home i reminded him. i say reminded b/c he obviously didn't remember. he replied with "how long has it been?" we have had a long hard year, and once our son was born in august i hoped things would be better but they have gotten worse. he has been out of work since last october, and i stayed with him and supported us 100%. he would see me stress out about bills and how to pay for all the things we needed for the baby, but never tried to look for a job. in july of this year i moved in with my parents and told him he had to show me he wanted us to work and do what was right for all of us. he finally got a job a few weeks after our son was born. since the baby came home, he never wants to come stay with me unless his friends down the street are home. he loves marijuana.... at first it wasn't that big a deal to me, but lately he will pick the weed over me and our son. if dude down the street has it he will come over, if not he won't. he doesnt think i see it, but i do. and the anniversary thing topped it off. i took him home afterwards, and tonight i called him and asked if he wanted to come stay the night. he says no b/c he had to go get some "stuff" for his friend and it just be to late to come over!!! should i just give up on him even though we have a child together and if not... how do i address this without blowing up and not getting my point across w/out pissing him off??
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