My bf and I are having some serious issues. He claims I am insecure, low self esteem, and no trust and I think he gives me no support and is controlling. He has friends with women and I am not allowed to be friends with any of my male friends any more. He is going out of town with his old teacher who was also an old flame and he got very angry at me for asking him if they had a relastionship. He told me it was non of my business even though he talks of past relastionships all of the time. I cannot talk during an arrgument but he does all the talking and it is the same crap over and over and over. I am ONLY allowed to be with him on Saturday evenings after 6pm and I cannot be with him any other time. I cannot call him because he is too tired. When we are together on saturdays I show up at 6:30pm and he is asleep by 7:30pm or 8:00pm so I am just sitting there looking stupid.I text him 2 times during the superbowl while he was with him friends and he said I was not respecting him BUT his old teacher called him and that was ok...his friends call him while he is with me and text him and he answers them. He even was calling some women hunny with me sitting right beside him. He is 39 and never been married or had a meaningful relastionship. He said I am the only one and I can see why. I am a door mat and I let him treat me bad. When he calls me names I let him and when breaks up with me i will beg for hours and hours.Like today, he broke up with me because I was upset over him going out of town with his ex teacher who is his old flame and he said I didnt trust him and he brokeup with me. I begged him for hours and then he said stop begging me...i will give it one more time but this is the last time and if you ever saying anything about my ex teacher again i am going to tell you to go F**K OFF AND I MEAN IT!! That right there was like a punch in the stomach! I felt sick and i think I dont love him any more! I dont know....In Jan. we started a sexual relastionship and I of course got pregnanat on the first time! I ended up miscarriaging andwhen I was upseet and crying he broke up with me cause he said that he couldnot takeme any more. He does not like conflict or issues and every time we have one he will dump me. A really good friend of mine said that he should be the one listening to me cry and talk about it and when I said that he dumped me and said that we could still see each otherbut we are to back off till i get over it....So I had to go get support from others and that hurts....I dont knwo what to do...any suggestions?
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