I just posted this discussion in the Sexual Abuse community, but I wanted to get responses from this community as well. I was sexually molested when I was a kid and have worked hard on healing this past year. I think I'm ready for a relationship. I was wondering how far into a relationship should I wait before I tell him that I was molested? It's hard for me to be open with people in other ways if they don't know about something that has had such a big imapct on my life, and yet, I don't want to scare someone away. Also, what kind of response should I expect and be prepared for? I really need someone to be supportive of me and to be upset and angry that it happened. I guess I just want him to care... Thanks for your responses!
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