
Healthy Relationships Support Group
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Selfish or suffering in silence ?
Ask him to spend more time with you and the reasons why you want him too.
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Just don't lose sight of the fact that he probably really is trying his best for you, in his own way.
I had to explain to him how i felt that this was the last little spat of time that was just us, that i was scared it was running out so fast and that i wanted to squeez every last drop out of it that i coould.
At first, befor i explained all this and was just winging at him (which i can have a tendency to do) he was defensive and upsett that i wasn't appreciating all his "hard work" But when i explained my position with more heart he understood where i was comming from and was able to see it from my view (which he just genuinely didn't see before)
You are not being selfish - i think it is a perfectly normal reaction - you need as much love and attention as you can get at this time anyway.
Good luck with your pregnancy hun, and just try to really explain your feelings rather then venting in frustration if you can.
Talk to him about what you want.
Communicate, compromise, and co-operate.
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