So I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. We both know how many partners and who they were. We didn't talk about this at first bc I believe it just ruins the relationship when you start blabbing about your past in the beginning. But then eventually we talked about how many and who. But no he's started in on this one guy I dated. Actually it was the last guy before him..but it was nothing serious just a fling for a couple of months. I guess he's obviously worried that I still have feelings for him and this just came out of no where. But he's asking very detailed questions about the sexual things I did with this guy and I'm really not sure why but I just don't feel comfortable telling him every single thing. I mean I don't want to tell the guy I love details about me having sex with another man and I don't understand why he wants to know. He says that it will make him feel closer to me if he knows more detail about my past relationships..but I just think the past is the past and I really don't see any sense on dwelling on it or talking about it in detail. Not that detail anyway..I wouldn't want to know about the details of his past sexual encounters...so I guess I just want some other points of view. He thinks because I'm hesitant to tell him that I still have feelings for this guy and that is sooo not the case...but yet I think this is disrespectful of him to ask me all that and he doesn't. What do you think?
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