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NOT WANTING TO BE TOUCHED

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WE HAVE HAD TWO MISCARRIAGES THIS YEAR AND AFTER THIS SECOND ONE THAT HAPPENED THIS MONTH I HAVE FOUND MYSELF NOT WANTING TO BE TOUCHED BY MY HUBBY TO BE..I KNOW THIS HAS TO BE HARD FOR HIM..BUT FOR SOME REASON EVERYTIME HE TOUCHES ME I JUST PULL BACK OR PUSH HIS HAND AWAY...WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE ME FEEL AND KNOW IT IS OK TO BE TOUCH AGAIN...?
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It will happen, you need time.

He needs to understand that you feel fear about it, maybe because you fear falling pregnant and it happening again.

Can you try starting with hugs and see how it goes on from there?
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THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOU HELP
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I had a miscarriage last year and i went through that. I was totally repulsed by that. knowing that I could get pregnant again and in the end i did and we had a beautiful baby girl but she died of sids two months ago. But it can get better. He is probably hurting too and it seems like men express it through sex by wanting to be close
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