first things first...my bf and i have been together for almost four years. it also needs to be stated that i am a recovering drug addict (90 days clean from pain meds & weed after using for almost ten years) and he is not an addict at all. i am 26 and he is 22. in the beginning we had a wonderfully passionate sex life. but over the last 2-3 years my sex drive has been slowly fading. this is the source of many frustrating discussions for us. he doesnt ever want me to have sex if i dont want to, but at the same time if we dont have sex for a while he becomes frustrated. i usually just give up and go for it as best i can, wether i really want to or not. i dont worry about him cheating on me at all, it is just not in his nature to be unfaithful. he always wants to know what he can do differently or if there is anything that he is doing wrong, and there isn't, that i know of. i believe that the problem is mine and in my head or body, but i don't know what i can do. things have been getting progressively worse and worse, and he suggested (after not having relations for a month now) that we may need a break from one another! that scared the hell out of me! i went to see a nurse practioner to see if there is anything medical i can do, and it was suggested that i get a counselor at the mental health facility here in town. i don't know what to do, and i am open to any suggestions. i adore my bf and am willing to do just about anything to save our relationship.
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