OK so iam new to this.. my friend told me about it.. iam in a new relationship and need help.. hes 5 yrs younger then me.. we have been dating for two months. we both have alot of stuff to work on mostly its my fault. I need HELP . because i do love him. We were raised very diff.. Anyway, I didnt realize that I was doing these things until he pointed them out and it was stressing him out. I get huffy and puffy if we are talking or fighting about something. i get mad alot and then just shut down and tell him iam fine when really im not.. I will call him later on and tell him that iam upset when 20 min ago i was with him. He tells me that i dont open up when iam upset. He said he thinks iam trying to get pitty from him and hes getting tired of it. Iam currently not working and hes working two jobs ( i just graduated from college and trying to find work) and hes stressing out because everything is falling on him. maybe i can get some help here and try and change.. i need to change and quit my attitude and stop getting mad -rolling eyes etc. we just fight alot..