Ive been w/my bf for 3 years now, and I've never talked to, saw, met, any of his family. Not even his younger sister whos 5 or cousins! He is from Armenia in Europe and his parents dont speak any english which is ONE of his excuses. His sisters speak english. But the biggest excuse of them all is: "My dad is very strict and only wants me to date a girl he picks." In his culture the realtionships are completely controlled. I am not christian enough his dad said when he saw a picture of me becuz i wear makeup! They've already judged me! Its a horrible situation which has made me not even want to meet the family but I feel it's a step we haven't taken to deepen our relationship. I think family is most important and hes met my whole entire family. Its not fair, and every time I confront him he lays out great defense which leaves me exhausted to argue about. He wants to marry me, but its ridiculous I say "am I to meet them the first time at my wedding??!" ive never seen a story like that. I dont know how to overcome this wall in our relationship.
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