Healthy Relationships Support Group
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Hey everyone
Ok, I'm ending my relationship with my boyfriend of 2 and a half years. This is hard in itself since we've been through so much together and it's always hard to break apart emotionally.
But there is this other guy that likes me and I really like him. We've hooked up a few times and slept together a few too.
Before I really believed him that he really liked me and didn't just want me for sex, but lately he's made me feel like all he does want is sex. I want to be able to talk to him and have a proper relationship with him, but he seems so closed and doesn't want to talk. He humours me before sex then lays down and says or does nothing afterwards.
What can I do???
Ok, I'm ending my relationship with my boyfriend of 2 and a half years. This is hard in itself since we've been through so much together and it's always hard to break apart emotionally.
But there is this other guy that likes me and I really like him. We've hooked up a few times and slept together a few too.
Before I really believed him that he really liked me and didn't just want me for sex, but lately he's made me feel like all he does want is sex. I want to be able to talk to him and have a proper relationship with him, but he seems so closed and doesn't want to talk. He humours me before sex then lays down and says or does nothing afterwards.
What can I do???
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What about having a gap betwween relationships Less pain all round and it will give you a chance to look at your life an decide Whats really important to you! Love Song
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I am so sorry but it sounds to me as if he is using you for sex. If that is what yo uneed then go for it, I have been there and I am sure so have a lot of others but if you need a relationship that is based on talking I would look elswhere. Song is right, have a good think about what is important to you and run with it.
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learn from the past, build a future on what you want ....
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