So I am needing some advice on my realtionship with my boyfriend. we have been together for almost a year and i love him so much. our relationship has been difficult however; he farms with his family and he works every single day of the year all day long 6 or 7am til' 7-9 pm(and he doesnt make squat for $). so we dont really get to spend much time together, we've never gotten to lay around and watch tv during the day, pretty much do anything during the day!!! His dad(and his mom) is an asshole to him, he tells him he is worthless all the time, and so on. his dad yells at him everyday usually all day long and my boyfriend ends up taking his anger out on me a lot, by getting mad at me a lot and he is very short with me, he is just angry a lot because of how his family treats him. But we are also very happy together!!! We don't live together but we've been looking for a place for months now! So, im thinking that this will help our relationship when we can be closer and have more time together. we have talked about kids, but how when he works all the time, i want him to be there for his children. and i have one more question, his dad...he is nice to me but then he can turn around and be the biggest ass to my boyfriend, for nothing, which in turn affects our relationship. he blames him for everything that goes wrong on the farm, how do you make someone understand how precious their children are and make them love them and be happy???
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