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My story if anybody cares to read :)

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My boyfriend and I have "technically" been together for almost 3 years now. Last February we had broken up what seemed like for good. So we moved on with our own lives. I started going out all the and hanging out with all different people. I was having a blast! And I was sure he was doing the same thing. Over the months that went by we talked occasionally. However, at this point I had painted a pretty ugly picture of him to friends, family, and co-workers so none of them really liked that I sometimes talked to him. So anyways Christmas came and I was really starting to think about him and we ended up contacting each other on Christmas day and telling each other how much we missed each other and blah blah blah. So we decided to start hanging out again maybe seeing if we could work things out (just without my parents, friends, or coworkers finding out.. ha). Currently, it is going really great! I'm so happy to be back with him, my parents do know and are fine with it. Not many of my friends know and I am still hiding it from my coworkers :/ I hate that and I hate the fact that our relationship used to be great and now we have to hide it from people. Sorry it was so long but I just needed to that out and see what others had to say. :)
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Be true to who you are, and don't keep things like this from them. Good luck. :)