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my son askeed if he could get into a fight

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just wanting people's opinions...i put this on the parenting teen board too...
hi...my oldest is 15...he wants to fight this other kid that has been giving him a really hard time, bullying him and others and treating girls disrespectfully and disrespecting his girlfriend. i don't think my son should fight this time....
last year, he confronted a bully and ended up getting suspended for 10 days, for pushing him....and he got charges pressed on him for disorderly conduct....i watched the video the school had and really, the school and the police were way too harsh on him...
but, he just made the honor roll for the first time, he has tons of friends, is a complete social butterfly and makes good decisions, at least from what i can tell....i just don't think it's worth him fighting this guy this time....
what do you guys think?
hi...my oldest is 15...he wants to fight this other kid that has been giving him a really hard time, bullying him and others and treating girls disrespectfully and disrespecting his girlfriend. i don't think my son should fight this time....
last year, he confronted a bully and ended up getting suspended for 10 days, for pushing him....and he got charges pressed on him for disorderly conduct....i watched the video the school had and really, the school and the police were way too harsh on him...
but, he just made the honor roll for the first time, he has tons of friends, is a complete social butterfly and makes good decisions, at least from what i can tell....i just don't think it's worth him fighting this guy this time....
what do you guys think?
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b: be removed from the school
These days anything can happend..your sone may fight him and win..but the bully may relaliate by bringing a gun to school and hurting everyone...good luck i am sorry you have to go through this! congratulations on raising a son who is willing to stick up for his friends even if it means jepardising his future....very selfless!
If he has to think about it ...then forget it.
Fights are usually spontaneous. if it should have happened, it would have happened by now.
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A Win - Win situation.
Well done :-)
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they almost got into a fight at the movies on friday...but it didnt' happen and i am glad for it....the other kids actually tried to make peace with my son....i just hope my son can move on and not hold grudges...thanks everyone!
While you son might want a "clean" fight, i seriously doubt that the bully has any concept of what a "clean" fight means.