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My bf is very sensitive. I have kind of a sarcastic nature and it really offends him. I get frustrated when he thinks i am being rude to him. Then we argue. I work 2 jobs and try to spend any free time with him. He tells me i dont show him i love him. He tells me that i dont pay enough attention to him. I love to laugh and joke, but i dont seem to be able to do this with him. He has 2 children who he gets everyother week. When i ask something of him he always says "i am only one person". Everytime he tells me that he is unhappy i say so do you want to be with me or not, he says i am trying to make him break up with me. When we argue he says that i always have to be right and that he always has to apologize. I dont feel that way so i get angry, then he says he cant talk about how he feels cause i just get mad. I have depression and know it and am dealing with it. It has been a long couple months but i am getting help. He says i have a bad attitude, i dont. I am so confused!!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
this post was brief but dude sounds a lil' codependent...
does he make you happy, mostly?
try making a list of things you like and dislike about him. what can you compromise on? what can't you?
sometimes just being with someone you love isn't enough. both of you have to have your needs met, and staying together out of habit is not healthy!
best of luck, sorry to be blunt.