Ive been divorced a year, have 2 kids 10yrs and 6yrs old, I have a boyfriend of 11mons and he has a daughter who is 4yrs old. This kid is driving me nuts i tell you! She whines about everything, she is loud and very hyper, she is demanding and will not listen to me or anyone else but her father. I hate to see her coming when she visits but i know its his kid so i have to learn to deal with her. My kids arent perfect but if i tell them to quiet down they do, this kid u can tell her 99 times to quiet down and she ends up still getting loud. I work and go to school fulltime , I get up at 6am most days and go to bed at 11 or 12midnight, on the weekend is the only time i can sleep in and relax, but i cant because his daughter visits then and she gets loud and antsy when she awakes, i cant get any sleep and i feel frustated! I dont know what to do. I dont want to seem like i dont like her and i dont want her around because that may drive him away, plus he accepted my kids so i should do the same. I can yell at my kids and let them know if they are pushing my nerves, but his daughter I cant, she is too sensitive and will say that someone is being mean to her or she wants to go home if she doesnt get her way. Her mother asked if his daughter could live with us for a while, now i feel trapped because i really wasnt to into having her visit but i had to be fair, it is his daughter and all, now i dont know what to do, i didnt want any more kids and now not only did i get another one but i got one who seems to be stuck in that teriible two stage, even though ahe is four...any advice??/?
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