My boyfriend frustrates me, and he is so confusing...one day he is loving and caring and sweet, and the next, it seems almost as if he doesn't want to be around me. This past week we got together to go out to eat, and it was really nice because we hadn't seen each other for a month because he has a terrible work schedule, little money, and we live almost two hours apart. He basically works overnight and sleeps during the day. I understand that he has a lot on his plate, and I truly care about his wellbeing and I am there for him whenever he needs me. We had a great time out to dinner, and had some amazing conversations, and then we went to the mall afterward where we continued to talk for a couple hours, which was really nice. It was such a great evening. I saw him yesterday as we got together for my best friend's birthday, she is also very close to him, and he didn't seem happy to see me, like he didn't seem unhappy, but I didn't feel like he wanted to be with me, even after we were done eating and everyone was leaving, I didn't feel like he wanted me, it's hard to explain, but I don't know I am just frustrated. And he smokes, which he keeps saying he is trying to quit, now granted I know that it is something that is not easy to quit whatsoever, but he just began smoking again recently, and I haven't seen him even attempt to not go out and have a cigarette with the boys. He is hard to read, and when I try to talk to him about it, it comes out wrong, or he doesn't understand what I am trying to say, and he thinks I am saying something else and he gets all defensive and I just don't know what to do...I really care about him, and I guess the hardest thing is just not knowing because he is so unpredictable. What should I do??
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