My best friend of almost 3 years is stuck in this cycle of dating guys who do not treat her good. It's like she just settles because she always thinks well I won't find anyone better. The guy she's with now is just plain crazy. They moved in together after only 2 months and 2 weeks after they moved in, she says he completely changed for the worse. He throws stuff at her( i.e. he threw the coffee table at her and hit her with it), calls her every name in the book, he refuses to touch her or sleep with her (they haven't had sex in weeks), he pays $0 and I mean $0 to her for the bills (she pays everything). She claims he doesn't make enough money to help out but he obviously is just using her. He plays video games all day and doesn't try to look for a better job. He's just really sorry. She's always calling me upset and she's so stressed out she's starting to have chest pains. She even found out he's tried to commit suicide so now she's worried about him doing that if she leaves him...It really pisses me off that she allows herself to stay in these type of situations. Her excuse "I don't like to hurt people" so therefore everytime I tell her to leave him she says well I will have a talk with him or he's depressed today so I dont' want to throw anything else on him right now. She is my best friend and I care alot about her but I feel very helpless. No matter what I say to her to try and open her eyes that she can find someone who will treat her good, she keeps staying with these losers. Is there anything else I can do or say???
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